Saturday, February 28, 2015

Spring Has Sprung in 2015

Every year I enjoy the unfolding of Spring. Yesterday I noticed Forsythia in full bloom in a couple of spots on my way home from work. That of course always makes me think of home and mom.

I haven't planted one here,  but I do appreciate it wherever I do see it in someone's yard. My Lilac is looking on track for late April and the rose bush in the backyard is leafing out too.

We have glorious sunshine today and I got out and took a walk back from the post office to enjoy it. I still feel bad for everyone stuck in the cold back East,  but I'm not going to let it stop me from enjoying the beautiful day we've got going here.

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Happy Valentines Day

From Dangerdust

Here are some quotes to honor St. Valentine's Day.

I wish everyone a Happy Valentines Day, single or not. I'm still in the first category, but continue to hope for the best


True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together. Ricardo Montalban


Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer. Jean de La Fontaine

The course of true love never did run smooth. William Shakespeare

True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding. Ellen G. White

True love is selfless. It is prepared to sacrifice. Sadhu Vaswani

Genuine and true love is so rare that when you encounter it in any form, it's a wonderful thing, to be utterly cherished in whatever form it takes. Gwendoline Christie

True love cannot be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied where it does. Torquato Tasso

True love stories never have endings. Richard Bach


I love my husband very much. I knew it was real true love because I felt like I could be myself around that person. Your true, true innermost authentic self, the stuff you don't let anyone else see, if you can be that way with that person, I think that that's real love. Idina Menzel

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Carolyn Hax - February 8 2015

I enjoy reading Carolyn Hax for the same reasons that the late Ann Landers always used to be interesting to read as well, they both call it as they see it. Here is one of two columns dated today in The Seattle Times. I posted her column on being your best self before, and like that column, I thought this was a particularly good one as well.

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Stop rating-scale dating and seek true connection

Advice columnist Carolyn Hax: The best way to see what people have to offer is to rid yourself of preconceived notions of who you want them to be.

Dear Carolyn

DEAR CAROLYN: I’m an average-looking guy — let’s say a 6 — and after years of dating, I’ve come to the conclusion that I have four options when it comes to women, none of which seems to add up to long-term happiness.

Option 1: Be with a woman who is more attractive than me, but less intelligent or mentally stable, thus trading intellectual connection for beauty.

Option 2: Be with a woman of equal intelligence and attractiveness, but spend my life in boredom once the novelty wears off, and end up like every other married zombie.

Option 3: Be with a woman who is more successful and intelligent, but less attractive than I, and spend my life fighting the temptations of lust (think Bill Clinton).

Option 4: Become the lonely creepy uncle everybody invites to Thanksgiving out of pity.

Is my outlook completely distorted and pessimistic? Or am I just being an entitled moron with an inflated ego? Is there a 5th option (other than becoming rich and famous)? I’d really appreciate your feedback.

— A.

DEAR A.: So if you’re a 6, then you can get a woman with 10 looks only if she’s a minus 4 personality? And a 5 gets stuck with a 5 and they live undead-ly ever after? And wealth and fame buy anyone you want?

This is so cynical my eyebrows frosted. Not that you’re bitter and write people off as heartless, just that you completely omit the heart.

We are not linear, we are not commodities, we are not mere sums of traits, at least not ones that can be measured objectively — and having to say this has me concerned about your ability to hear it.

I can only hope you’ve gotten your view of partnership from “10 Things You’re Doing Wrong on Dates” listicles — or from friends whose views on dating fit into “All [blank] are [blank]!” constructions.

I hope this because these are, like any inadequate education, reversible by anyone willing to ask more of themselves.

Please start by digging into what you want from women. Something to look at and sleep with? Something to take with you to couple-y things? Something to help you reproduce, check the right life boxes, make your home more homey, supplement your income? If you’re nodding at any of these, then never mind and pick whatever option seems least dreadful to you.

But if you’re saying no no no, you want companionship, intimacy, mutual support, then quit “dating” and start paying attention to whose company you prefer above all others. Have you ever known someone you were always happy to see walk into a room, even after, to use your phrase, “the novelty wears off”?

Has that person been a family member, best buddy or group of friends, but never a woman you were dating or wanted to date?

I suspect that’s the real culprit here, that for whatever reason, you see women as a special category of pairing, independent of all other bonds you have, and resulting from a specialized search.

If so, you’re being so unfair to yourself. A love that satisfies is one that combines much of what is good and rewarding in your other relationships into one source, someone who also has that fuller appreciation of you.

If you love that your buddies make you laugh and allow you to be yourself, that your parents inspire you to do your best, that your grandma knows when you need cookies and a hug versus a treatise on this or that, and that you’ve never forgotten your first actual girlfriend because gazing at her got you through algebra, then you just sketched out someone who would fit you. Not a 6, 7, 7 and a 5 who averaged out to an attainable 6.25.

I’m not suggesting you should walk around with this sketch, seeking a woman who looks just like that. On the contrary; the best way to see what people have to offer is to rid yourself of preconceived notions of who you want them to be.

If my suggested sketch is of anyone, it’s a sketch of you — of how you feel, and want to feel, around others. It’s to show you why and where and how you chose the other valuable people in your life, so you can follow similar paths to get to know women. Not date them, get to know them; too often there’s a difference.

You meet friends through shared classes, teams, work or even a shared backyard fence, right? So pick the hobbies and hangouts and community groups that best represent who you are and make yours a regular presence there. If your natural habitat isn’t conducive to meeting women, then adjust your habitat so that it’s still right for you but allows for more circulation.

If you and an unattached woman in this habitat enjoy similar things, cross paths often, cultivate a friendship, outlast any novelty and still seek each other out, then that’s the option not to refuse.

Email Carolyn at tellme@washpost.com and follow her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/carolyn.hax. Find her columns daily at www.seattletimes.com/living

(Heavenly) British Mysteries on PBS

Couldn't resist sharing this article from The Seattle Times online about two British mystery series on PBS from their book editor Mary Ann Gwinn. The subject is 'Grantchester' and 'Father Brown', two new(er) series that I've been watching and enjoy very much. If you haven't checked them out, I definitely recommend both. The mystery part of Father Brown is not too intricate, it's more the human nature of the characters that and the cast that make it so enjoyable. Father Brown is in a second season already to my understanding, episode 4 of Grathchester airs tonight. The mystery side of Grantchester is stronger, but like Father Brown, also what makes it so good is the cast and the human side of the story. And of course for both, it's the beautiful English countryside and the always impeccable production values for recreating the past that makes them so fun to watch!

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  Mary Ann Gwinn, Seattle Times Book Editor


You may be forgiven if you are wondering why, in our trending-secular world, there are currently, not one, but TWO priests solving crimes on PBS, part of the post-”Downton Abbey” British invasion currently dominating the public TV airwaves.

Those would be Father Brown, Catholic priest, and Canon Sidney Chambers, Anglican clergyman.

I have followed this development with interest because ... yes, I have read all the books. As so often with PBS, first comes the book, then the TV version.

I was introduced to Father Brown years ago by a snobbish Devon bookseller. I had peeked into her bookshop with all the shy ardor of a Henry James debutante. I asked her for reading recommendations.

She looked over her half-moon glasses and down her patrician nose at me, all a-quiver with an American’s delight in being in an ENGLISH BOOKSTORE, and said. “Well (long pause). You might try Father Brown.”

Mrs. McCarthy (Sorcha Cusack), left, Lady Felicia (Nancy Carroll), Father Brown (Mark Williams), Sid Carter (Alex Price) and Inspector Sullivan (Tom Chambers) populate the “Father Brown” TV series, based on the G.K. Chesterton novels.

Father Brown is the creation of a brilliant mind, the polymath English author G.K. Chesterton (1874-1936). Chesterton wrote novels, plays, essays, journalism and eventually, the Father Brown series, dozens of books about a crime-solving Catholic priest.

Chesterton was known as the Prince of Paradox for his ability to look at questions from all sides, intellectual and spiritual. Father Brown, while a very deft reasoner, primarily relies on his understanding of the human heart to solve crimes. As he says in “The Blue Cross,” in answer to the question of how a priest could know the criminal mind so well: “Has it never struck you that a man who does next to nothing but hear men’s real sins is not likely to be wholly unaware of human evil?” Good point

The Rev. Sidney Chambers (James Norton), left, with Robson Green as Geordie Keating in “Grantchester.”

Sidney Chambers is the direct heir of Father Brown, according to his creator, James Runcie. Runcie is a British novelist and filmmaker steeped in the Anglican faith by virtue of the fact that his father, Robert Runcie, was the Archbishop of Canterbury.

Runcie acknowledges that Sidney is loosely based on his father — Robert Runcie, like Sidney, saw active service in World War II. As for the detective part ... Sidney Chambers is “an Anglican Father Brown, Morse with morals, or Barbara Pym with no clothes on,” he said in a Telegraph interview. (The no-clothes part: Sidney is an enthusiastic heterosexual, passionate about women, particularly the love of his life, Hildegard.) The author called the Grantchester Mysteries, six in all, “a moral history of postwar Britain.”

So, since Runcie has basically acknowledged his debt to Father Brown, what do these holy men have in common?

1. They are priests, preoccupied with problem of evil, and how it can coexist with a beneficent God. As Sidney says in the book “Sidney Chambers and the Problem of Evil,” eulogizing a murdered priest — “If there is a God, why is there evil? If there is not, why is there good?”

2. They both antagonize, then charm, the local police, who eventually turn to them for help in solving crimes. Father Brown has Inspector Sullivan, played in the PBS series by Tom Chambers. Sidney has Inspector Geordie Keating, played by Brit TV series superstar Robson Green, who does his best to tamp down his charismatic good looks in the service of portraying a harried family man, going gray fast and not happy about it.

3. They both have loquacious women assistants, either at the office or at home; Father Brown’s Mrs. McCarthy (Sorcha Cusack) and Sidney’s Mrs. Maguire (Tessa Peake-Jones). These women are Irish, outspoken, and in the case of Sidney’s Mrs. Maguire, quick on the draw with a Bible verse.

Differences? Sidney, as played by James Norton, is a dish — the women fall hard and fast for his chestnut hair and mobile mouth. Father Brown is played by Mark Williams, a comic character actor, and a great one. But since he’s chaste, any fires of attraction are thoroughly banked.

Sidney has a dog. Father Brown has an umbrella.

Bottom line: Both of these series are well worth the investment in time (let’s not forget that mythical English countryside I hope to ascend to when I die). Pure pleasure, with a dose of spirituality and ethics in the side.

As Runcie said in the Telegraph interview:

“My editor once said to me: ‘These are disguised sermons, aren’t they?’ I am not ashamed of that and I am hopeful that the television series, as well as being dramatic, consists of thoughtful and moral meditations on subjects such as loyalty, friendship, deceit, cruelty and generosity ... Hate the sin, but love the sinner ... ”

Mary Ann Gwinn: 206-464-2357 or mgwinn@seattletimes.com. Gwinn appears every Tuesday on TVW's "Well Read," discussing books with host Terry Tazioli (go to tvw.org/shows/well-read for archived episodes). On Twitter @gwinnma.

Saturday, February 7, 2015

Christmas in February?


A lone bloom for February on my Christmas Cactus to brighten an otherwise gloomy weekend, at least weather-wise. We are on the northern end of the Pineapple Express that has been hitting the San Francisco-Bay area pretty hard since Thursday. We had really strong winds but warm temperatures, and then the heavy rain started yesterday. A good day to stay in to say the least.

Friday, February 6, 2015

Elgin Park


Another feature on photographer Michael Paul Smith on Colossal.com Wednesday. Check it out - the detail of the models that he uses for his forced perspective retro photos is phenomenal.


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Tuesday, February 3, 2015

3D Calligraphy by Tolga Girgin

Once again, some amazing art over on Colossal.com yesterday. 3D calligraphy by Turkish graphic designer Tolga Girgin. He has an Instagram account, tolgagirgin99, that I have bookmarked since I'm not on Instagram myself to follow him. I now have 4 Instragram accounts bookmarked on my computer, I'm sure that number is going to continue to grow...

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